Before heading back to Wheaton after Thanksgiving, we went to Grandma Ross's house and spent quite a while with her. It was a visit just like every other... cookies, sudoku, puzzles, and laughter.
Earlier in the week, I had heard my uncle and dad both say (to other people) that she was slowing down, which was the first time I'd ever heard them say that. I noticed it too, and was praying for her when I couldn't sleep on Thanksgiving night. I could sense her time on earth was coming to an end, and I found so much comfort in knowing that God knew exactly the day she was born, every detail about her life, the number of hairs on her head, and the exact day she would enter into heaven. I just prayed that it would be quick and peaceful process when the time came.
On Tuesday, December 2nd, (only a few days later), I received the news that she had passed away. She spent time with my dad and his two brothers in the morning like she always did, talked on the phone with my Aunt Cathy and died about an hour later. I cried when I found out, but was also so thankful. I feel like it was such a gift that God allowed her to have one last morning with her kids rather than dying in her sleep. God also allowed her to go from healthy to heaven in just a few short weeks. No major suffering or decline. She lived at home and was still driving!
Parker was pretty sad when we told him, but we got to talk about how she's in heaven and how awesome that is. She leaves behind a legacy of 5 children and 13 grandchildren who all have a relationship with Jesus and are teaching the many great-grandchildren the importance of that, too. What more could a woman ask for? I was so blessed to have her in my life for such a long period of time.
Here are some of my favorite pictures of her.
A typical Sunday afternoon visit.
She was quite the bowler! She bowled over 200 in her 80's! I've never done that in my life!
She loved to travel and was always up for adventure.
This picture is how I will remember her the most. She sat at her table and peeked around the curtain every time someone came to visit, which was several times a day. This is also the place I spent most of my time with her. She told me about her childhood, shared funny stories of the kids when they were growing up and we ate lots of yummy snacks like oreos and red koolaid, chocolate chip bars and peanut brittle. Even writing this over a month later I can't really believe she's gone. But, I'm filled with joy that she is with her heavenly Father that she has longed to be with for quite some time.
Love you and miss you, Grandma!